How To Plan An Elopement

There’s something undeniably magical about eloping. Whether it’s the intimacy, spontaneity, or the sheer joy of focusing solely on your love story, elopements are having a serious moment — and for good reason. With fewer moving parts than a traditional wedding and more room for personalization, couples are leaning into this stripped-back yet meaningful way to get married. But don’t be fooled — even the most low-key elopement needs a little bit of planning.

If you’re thinking about running off to tie the knot (with or without your nearest and dearest), here’s your ultimate guide on how to plan an elopement — from budgeting to finding the perfect venue and vendors and creating a post-“I do” plan.

1. Start with Your Budget

While elopements are generally more affordable than traditional weddings, they still come with a price tag. Think about what you’re comfortable spending — and what kind of experience you want.

Budget considerations might include:

• Travel and lodging
• Photography and videography
• Attire and rings
• Officiant and legal fees
• Flowers, food, and extras
• A venue (yes, even elopements benefit from a beautiful setting!)

  

2. Choose the Perfect Location

Your elopement can take place anywhere — from your local courthouse to a windswept cliff, forest, or cozy cabin. The location sets the tone for your day, so think about what inspires you.

Whether you’re staying close to home or planning a destination elopement, let your shared story and vision guide you.

3. Find a Venue That Fits Your Vision

Just because you’re eloping doesn’t mean you can’t have a beautiful place to say your vows. Many venues now offer intimate ceremony packages, perfect for couples seeking a simple, romantic experience.

What to Look for in an Elopement-Friendly Venue

• Elopement or micro-wedding packages – These often include the essentials: an officiant, florals, coordination, and photography.
• Officiant included – Some venues offer in-house officiants or have partnerships with local celebrants, saving you an extra step.
• Stunning natural scenery or private settings – Think gardens, rooftops, cabins, forests, small chapels, or even boutique hotels.
• Flexible guest options – Whether it’s just the two of you or a few close guests, make sure the space fits your plans.
• All-in-one offerings – If you want a no-fuss experience, look for venues that bundle everything (flowers, décor, officiant, photographer).

  

4. Check the Legal Requirements

Eloping still requires legal documentation unless you’re planning a symbolic ceremony. Make sure to:

• Obtain a valid marriage license for the location
• Understand waiting periods and witness rules
• Book an officiant (or ensure your venue provides one)

If you’re eloping abroad, you may want to handle the legal paperwork at home and have a symbolic ceremony elsewhere. Working with a travel planner can be a game-changer—they’ll help you navigate the details, manage logistics, and make sure your day goes off without a hitch.

5. Book Travel Early

If your elopement involves travel, be sure to book your transportation and lodging well in advance to avoid price spikes and limited availability—especially during peak wedding or holiday seasons. Consider working with a travel planner; their expertise can be a game changer, helping you manage logistics, reduce stress, and ensure everything goes off without a hitch.

6. Hire Local Vendors

Vendors help bring your vision to life — even for the smallest weddings. There are countless vendors to choose from, and the ones you hire will depend on the experience you want to create. Here’s a small selection of options to consider:

Consider hiring:

• A photographer or videographer to document your story
• A florist for a bouquet, boutonniere, or ceremony arch
• A planner or day-of coordinator to manage the logistics and to help with venue and vendor recommendations.
• A hair and makeup artist will make you feel truly special and camera-ready on your elopement day.

Other vendors to consider:

• Acoustic musician
• Private Chef or Caterer
• Helicopter/ Hot Air Balloon/ Small Plane Pilot
• Transportation
• Adventure Guide
• Baker/Wedding Cake Maker
• Tour Guide

Vendors who specialize in elopements will often offer smaller packages and even serve double-duty (many photographers and planners can also act as legal witnesses!).

7. Decide on Guests or Keep It Just You Two

Elopements can be just the two of you — or include a few meaningful people. If your state or country requires witnesses, plan accordingly. And remember, you can have a beautiful ceremony and invite loved ones to a celebration later.

8. Plan the Ceremony Details

Your ceremony is the heart of your elopement, so make it meaningful.

Ideas to personalize your ceremony:

• Write your own vows
• Include a symbolic ritual (handfasting, sand ceremony, etc.)
• Dress up! Wear what makes you feel like a bride or groom.
• Bring along a small bouquet or special keepsake
• Celebrate after with a romantic dinner or toast

Even the smallest ceremony can feel special with a little intentionality.

9. After the “I Do”

You’re married — congrats! Now it’s time to share the joy (and manage a few logistics).

Don’t forget to:

• Tell close friends and family personally — A call, video chat, or handwritten note is more thoughtful than a social media post.
• Send a wedding announcement — Mail cards or share a beautiful photo from your ceremony.
• Celebrate in your own way — Plan a dinner, a weekend getaway, or even a post-elopement party down the road.
• Handle any paperwork — Don’t forget to file your marriage license and update legal documents.

  

Final Thoughts

Eloping is all about making your love the focus — no stress, no expectations, just the two of you (and maybe a few others) celebrating something deeply personal. Whether you choose a courthouse, a scenic overlook, or a cozy backyard, your elopement deserves planning, care, and celebration.

Find a venue that feels right, plan with intention, and savor every second. This is your love story — write it your way.